Interfaith Ketubah: Wording, Who Signs and How to Choose

Couple signing a blue tree of life ketubah at a table during their wedding

An interfaith ketubah is a wedding document written for a couple where one partner is Jewish and the other is not. Instead of the traditional Aramaic contract, it uses egalitarian promises in English (often with Hebrew) that honor both families, and it can usually be signed by any two witnesses you choose. It is accepted by most Reform, Reconstructionist, Humanistic and interfaith officiants.

What does an interfaith ketubah say?

Interfaith texts focus on shared values rather than religious law. Most include:

  • A promise to love, respect and support each other as equals
  • A commitment to build a home filled with kindness, learning and joy
  • Respect for both partners' heritage and families
  • The date, city and both names, often in English and Hebrew

Many couples keep the familiar opening, "On the ___ day of the week...", so the ketubah still feels connected to Jewish tradition. You can see the full wording of each version on our ketubah text options page.

Who signs an interfaith ketubah?

A traditional ketubah is signed by two Jewish witnesses who are not related to the couple. For interfaith ketubahs, most officiants allow any two witnesses, such as close friends or family members of either partner. Many couples also sign themselves, and the officiant signs too. Always confirm with your officiant, because practice varies.

Framed twin olive trees ketubah displayed at a garden wedding ceremony
Two trees, one shared root: the Twin Olive Trees Ketubah is a favorite with interfaith couples

How to choose an interfaith ketubah

1. Start with your officiant

Ask whether they have text requirements, whether Hebrew should be included, and who they want as witnesses.

2. Choose imagery that feels like both of you

Universal symbols work beautifully: trees of life, olive branches, flowers and wreaths. Explore our interfaith ketubahs; every design works with interfaith text.

3. Decide on languages

English only, or English with Hebrew. If you include Hebrew names, we transliterate them for free.

4. Personalize the wording

You can add a line about blending traditions, a favorite quote, or your own vows. Send us your text and we include it in your proof.

5. Plan time for the proof

We send a digital proof within 24 hours so your officiant can read every word before anything is printed.

Interfaith ketubah vs. secular ketubah

An interfaith text gently references Jewish tradition and both families. A secular or humanist text leaves out religious references entirely. Some couples of different backgrounds prefer the secular version. Both are available with every design.

Frequently asked questions

Can a non-Jewish partner have a ketubah?

Yes. Interfaith ketubahs are written exactly for this. Many rabbis and cantors who perform interfaith weddings encourage a ketubah signing.

Does an interfaith ketubah have to include Hebrew?

No. It can be English only, or bilingual. Choose what feels right for your families.

Can we write our own interfaith text?

Yes. Custom text is free with every order. We format it and send a proof.

How far ahead should we order?

About 2 to 3 months before the wedding. Printed ketubahs take about 5 business days to print plus about 7 days for delivery after you approve the proof.