A same-sex or LGBTQ+ ketubah is a ketubah written in egalitarian, gender-inclusive language, so two brides, two grooms or nonbinary partners can make the same promises to each other as equals. It is widely used in Reform, Reconstructionist and Conservative communities, and any design can be paired with an inclusive text.
How the wording is different
Traditional ketubah texts assign roles to a bride and a groom. Inclusive texts replace those roles with mutual promises:
- Both partners commit to love, honor and support each other
- Gendered words such as "bride" and "groom" are replaced with names or "partners"
- Hebrew wording uses the correct grammatical forms for each couple, including gender-neutral options
- The same date, place and witnesses' signatures as any ketubah
See the full wording on our ketubah text options page, or read Ketubah Text Options Explained.
Choosing your ketubah
Pick any design
There are no "special" designs for same-sex couples: every ketubah in our shop can be printed with inclusive text. Browse same-sex and LGBTQ+ ketubahs or all ketubahs.
Tell us your names and pronouns
We use them to set the correct Hebrew forms. Hebrew transliteration is free.
Review the proof with your officiant
Your digital proof arrives within 24 hours, so your rabbi or officiant can check every word before printing.
Make it personal
Add your own vows or a meaningful quote. Custom wording is included at no extra cost.
Frequently asked questions
Can same-sex couples have a ketubah?
Yes. Many rabbis officiate same-sex Jewish weddings and encourage a ketubah signing with an egalitarian text.
Is there a gender-neutral Hebrew text?
Yes. We can use nonbinary Hebrew forms. Let us know your preference when you order.
Who can sign?
That depends on your officiant. In most liberal communities, any two witnesses you choose may sign, along with the couple and the officiant.
How long does it take?
Proof within 24 hours, then about 5 business days to print and about 7 days for delivery, with free shipping in the USA.